What the hell is wrong with some people?

Great question! I have know my husband for 12 years. We started dating after knowing each other for a year, we moved in together a year after dating, we got engaged a year after that, had a long engagement- 2 years and married in 2000. We have been happily married ever since. I dontthink there is anything wrong with livig together for a while before marriage. There is a lot of kinks to work out, and its nice to get over all of them before the wedding, then you can really enjoy it!